Support for Transgender Youth is More Important Than Ever

What does it mean to be transgender? We’ve heard it described a few different ways but one description rings in our heads the most: like being born in a bad costume that you can never, ever take off without undergoing intense pain. You know that if someone describes being transgender like that it’s time to pay attention. Unfortunately, we’re not paying attention. Being gay, lesbian, or bisexual has its share of challenges, and we’ve talked about them endlessly in the past. But what does it mean to be transgender, and why are we ignoring the problem?

We think that the conversation on transgender youth needs to definitely be out there. It’s okay to be LGBT, and that definitely includes transgender. But when you have no articles discussing your lifestyle, it’s hard to feel included at the table. We’ve read some reader feedback about this, and felt it was time to correct the situation. Since we’re not transgender, we apologize for any hurt feelings that the lack of inclusion may have caused.

Transgender Youth

Being transgender means a complex series of decisions. Do you consider yourself a male or a female? Do you want to look at gender reassignment surgery? Do you want to dress as a woman, but keep the genitals of a man? There’s no easy answer here, and there’s no wrong answer either.


As a society, we need to allow the discussion to take on more than just genitals and dresses. We also need to highlight transgendered people in the media. Laverne Cox is speaking out about transgender issues. She is an MTF transgender activist and actress who wants the world to accept transgendered people as who they are, rather than as whom the world thinks they should pretend to be. Media representation is the fastest way to increase people’s view of transgender issues, but it’s also a way that criticism creeps in. People tend to reject what they don’t understand. Unfortunately, gay and lesbian people tend to also be in that category. We have to embrace transgender people as allies, not as enemies. We’re all in the same battle. Don’t you want them to have the same freedoms that you enjoy? The “gay agenda” has enjoyed a long time in the sun, but there’s room in the sun for everyone’s issues. We don’t have to pick and choose, though it can feel that way at times. Throw in subjects of race, class, and disability, and the conversation gets even more complicated. [Continue reading]

Should You be Openly Gay On Campus?

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Everyone wants to fit in whether they want to admit it or not. Even though we're a gay community, we're not going to say that there aren't times where we wish to fit in a lot better than we do. Even as adults, we still look back on our school days … [Continue reading]

Why Attacking the CEO of Apple for Not Coming Out Is Wrong

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As the iPhone 6 gets ready to launch, everyone is taking notice. But here's something that people are taking notice of that isn't a cell phone: Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple. He's got big shoes to fill after Steve Jobs´s death, but it looks like he's … [Continue reading]

Teach Yourself Something This Summer – Why Wait

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The online learning boom is here to stay, and we're definitely glad for it. With so many LGBT youth feeling out of place in the traditional educational system, why aren't we standing up and making our own choices? Is it fear? Is it the possibility … [Continue reading]

Codependency and Gay Youth


Do you feel like it's impossible to actually get anything done in your life because you feel like you have to take care of other people? Does it always feel like just as you start moving forward, other people have to drag you down? Do you feel … [Continue reading]

Your Gay Support Team Awaits


Trying to be a gay youth on your own, with no support group, is downright insanity. I know that most will tell you to just toughen up and go it alone but this is a bad idea for a lot of different reasons. For starters, you need to realize that if you … [Continue reading]

Bringing Gay Partners Home for the Holidays

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Are you looking at trying to go home for the holidays? If you really love your family, you probably dream about a warm, comfortable evening at home with the people that matter most to you. However, in the gay community we don't have the luxury of … [Continue reading]

Supporting a Family Member That Recently Came Out

Supporting a Family Member

When we're dealing with our own issues as gay people, we can forget how important it is to support our fellow gays at every single turn. Indeed, if you're just hoping that everything will fall into place for a gay family member that just came out of … [Continue reading]

Score High On Your Next Essay Without Stress – The Right Service Makes the Difference!

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Bullying in today's classrooms is a big deal, but that's not what we're going to talk about today. After all, that would only address the surface problems and not the underlying solutions that have helped troubled youth for decades. The best way to … [Continue reading]

Brush Up On Your English Skills and Make the Grade!

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Sure, we talk a lot about issues surrounding gay youth, but in our opinion there's nothing more important than education. That's why it's so absolutely critical that if you're going to get the most out of your classes, you get the best information … [Continue reading]